How someone can find themselves again after being lost in love and life's struggles..

Sometimes everything we try to do in 'right' way, is not enough to make a good life. We try to understand others, we give 100 percent to our work, we remain honest and ethical, we try not to hurt others, but we forget that doing everything honestly does not mean that your life will be stable. People will take you for granted, they will exploit your kindness, they can be unnecessarily rude just to keep you on toe. After facing these things for a certain amount of time, you start to loose yourself and you do not find any happiness in anything. You can only feel sorrow and resentment.

Society and people around you will ask you to be a good person, but what they truly mean is: do what they say. Basically they are asking you to become their slaves. You can never be content by being someone's slave.

I urge to myself and anyone who are in similar situation like me, to be alone if people closer to you are only snatching your inner matter from you, who make the light of your soul so dull that you do not know who you are anymore. Please take care of yourself and if possible stop loving such people, because even if you leave this world, they will not even think twice before replacing you.

Try being yourself, even if you think you are sad, you are hopeless, you are ugly. Just be what you are for the moment, please do not suppress what you are going through, just to smile in front of others, because by doing so, in order to avoid conflict, you will be taking the mere possibility to become a beautiful and peaceful soul, away from yourself.

Stay yourself. You are the truth..